LesbianPH
Culture & Identity Guide

Tomboy Culture &
Filipino Lesbian Identity

Understanding the unique cultural landscape of lesbian life in the Philippines — from tomboy identity to LGBTQ+ rights and community.

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Tomboy Culture in the Philippines
IdentityTomboyFilipino Culture

Tomboy Culture in the Philippines

Understanding a uniquely Filipino identity

In the Philippines, 'tomboy' (often shortened to 'TB') refers to a masculine-presenting lesbian or gender-nonconforming woman. Unlike in Western contexts where the term can be pejorative, in the Philippines it is widely used as a neutral or even proud self-identifier. Tomboyism has deep roots in Filipino culture, with tomboys visible across all social classes, regions, and generations.

Filipino Lesbian Glossary

Tomboy / TB

Masculine-presenting lesbian or gender-nonconforming woman. A neutral/proud self-identifier in PH.

Femme / F

Feminine-presenting lesbian. Often paired with a tomboy in relationships.

TS (Tomboyish)

Someone between femme and tomboy in presentation.

Bakla

Feminine gay man or transgender woman. A distinct identity from lesbian/tomboy.

Bayot

Visayan equivalent of bakla, used in Cebu and Visayas regions.

SOGIE

Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity and Expression — the basis of PH equality legislation.

Ate

Older sister/woman — used respectfully for older lesbians in a community.

Lodi

Idol (reversed) — slang for someone admired in the community.